They say that, at some point, you just learn to let go, forget about it and move ahead.
I must disagree.
If it just takes a moment to let go,then you really never held on tightly enough. To a dream, To a goal. To a place, To a person. Even to anything.
I believe that you let go little by little. You let go a little, and hold back on. But with little less force until you fully release yourself. And the tighter you hold on, the more force you let go with. The deeper you dive, the higher you will fly. The closer you get, the further you will pull away. The weakee you feel, the stronger you will become.
So don’t be ashamed of your weaknesses. We all have some weaknesses. You must to be kind to yourself. You must learn to understand yourself. You must learn to believe in yourself. Never think that you are a bad person or less worthy. Try to differenciate between your self worth and your action. This will make you self aware. Everyone face failure in their lives once in awhile,no one is perfect.
I am not saying that you have to hold on the things and keep blaming yourself,NO! All I mean that, if you have made a mistake or something got wrong , simply take a breath and try to erase this from your mind slowly. Because if you try to throw it out in one stroke,this would cause some more issues.
So be strong… Be brave… Be happy..